The Narcissist’s Playbook #1: The Guilt Weapon
It’s never their fault.
You set a boundary? You’re selfish.
You call out their behavior? You’re cruel.
You pull away? How could you do this to me?
They don’t take responsibility—they hand it to you.
Suddenly, you’re the one apologising. You’re the one making it right. You’re the one carrying the weight of their choices like it was yours to begin with.
And the worst part? It works.
Because you’re a good person. Because you care. Because you don’t want to be the villain in someone’s story.
But here’s the truth: setting boundaries isn’t betrayal. Refusing to be manipulated isn’t cruelty. Walking away isn’t a crime.
Let them feel their own guilt. It was never yours to hold.
See you next Wednesday for the next page of The Narcissist’s Playbook.
With love,
Salwa