One of the most disgusting things feminists have done in recent decades is to create the fiction of an entirely ethical, kind and warm image for prostitution and strip clubs. There's a reason that massage parlors were traditionally lumped in with seedy businesses. I've even seen this kind of ideological massaging of the "sex work industry" on the History Channel, which portrayed Wild West brothels as upstanding businesses protecting both the girls and the customers. If that had been the case that there was a viable non-problematic version of prostitution, why would such businesses turn seedy in the 20th century? (this "upgrade" of prostitution was going on in parallel with "awareness" campaigns to make marriage appear terrifying)/