I almost feel bad for these women. Partly because we know how damaging this behavior is and partly because they came so close to realizing the truth! Another thing: Bell Hooks actually admitted that there were anti-male sentiments in feminism but considered it a small minority. She also described violence perpetuated by women as "patriarchal."
This all comes from Feminism is for Everybody. I recommend reading it for its odd blend of frank confessions, shameless bigotry, and fact-free assertions.