It would follow from your statement that the community should never be expected to support the woman nor pay for the abortions.

Reality:

Since abortion has been made legal the state has become much more influential in the lives of women and children.

The state is forcibly taking children who are not being raised as the state sees fit. The state has also resumed overt sterilization programs. It has assumed the role of big daddy. This makes some women feel more secure, and perhaps if they came from very unstable upbringing, it is understandable. But this feeling will not last, because the system is crashing.