Isn't it horrible the amount of self-censorship we have to engage in just to maintain a relationship with our family? There are certain topics I simply will not discuss with my own kids (and they honor that, at least, thank goodness). Because my relationship with them is always more important than anything else, but damn. I want them and their kids to be safe and healthy too. And I'm scared to death they will (or they already have) fallen prey to the Narrative.