A very insightful article. There are a few assumptions that feminist women make that create the problem being described:
1. There is an assumption that women deserve to be respected while men do not.
This is absurd...respect is earned based on one's conduct and actions, not their gender. Much of what these feminist mother's object to is actually young males correctly calling out poor behavior by girls and women that the feminist refuses to criticize or call out for the poor conduct that it is. The idea then men see women as sex objects is a prime example. It is WOMEN who overspend massively on clothing and make up to get the "right" man to look at them that drives this situation. Contrary to what many women believe, most men are NOT barely holding back from jumping on your to breed. Women flatter themselves far, far, far too much in this way!
2. There is a disparate allocation of responsibility and rights by gender.
Men are assigned responsibility for everything, even when they have no power in a situation, while women are never assigned responsibility for their own conduct. The reverse applies with rights. The prime example is the phrase women use when contraception fails: "He got me pregnant." indicating that the woman refuses to acknowledge her own culpability for the sex act and the hardly shocking result of a pregnancy. Indeed, given that women have insight into their time in the cycle that a man cannot have, it is WOMEN who have far more culpability here than any man could possibly have. This steadfast refusal for women to take or be held responsible for anything, unsurprisingly, drives men to lose respect for women.
So...inconclusion....feminist parenting is inherently child abuse to both young men and women.