I just read a few pages of "In the company of women". I really wonder how they can write that 95% of women were bullied by other women without analyzing who did the bullying? They also seem to have the normal "females are victims" approach, as did the Marie Claire article.

Joyce Benenson's "Warriors and Worriers" is better I think since it analyzes the evolutionary roots and is quite even handed. But even she cannot completely escape the victim mentality in the section about Worriers.