That's pretty much my experience. And the worst part is that nobody in society (not family, not friends, not anyone else) will believe whatever you have to say. No matter how much evidence, descriptions, narrations you can bring/tell/make; they will never believe you.

She will be this perfect thing that can do no wrong, forever. It's very hard on your psyche because it is basically a denial of reality.

I think if society was honest, it would look into this kind of abuse, and women would be the one at fault the most, by far. And the father would get the children's responsibility and that would be for the best...