Thank you for the reminder, what you say is true, and I love them all more than words can say. But in my case there is stuff beyond politics; there is generational gaslighting, ancient role-playing and family baggage. But the current situation has brought matters into sharper focus, and also I somehow seem to have grown a spine sometime over the past 20 years, which my bossypants older sisters were not prepared to deal with. I've rocked our dysfunctional boat and it's created chaos and uproar. I hope in time we will achieve a new level of understanding, trust and respect, but for now what I most needed was to step back and let be, and wait upon the Lord and the Tao. And, like Jo, hope that we will all live to be reconciled.