Agreed. If feminism were mainly for lesbians, we wouldn't be in the mess we're in. Feminism appeals to a deep selfishness and desire for protection--also a sense of in-group resentment, often irrational and easily provoked--amongst women in general, even women who do not define themselves as feminists but still want to see men controlled and made to serve women as their life's mission. Many non- and even anti-feminist men and women come together on the theme of men serving women. How many women will support the idea that women should serve men? A vanishing minority. So I'll say it: men should serve society; women should support men in that endeavor and serve them; both should in their different ways create a world that is good for children.