This is far from clear. Most reputable studies of domestic violence/intimate-partner violence (see the far-ranging work of academic Murray Strauss, for example) show that men and women participate equally in hitting, slapping, punching, and kicking. In relationships where only one partner is violent, women predominate. Women abuse children equally with men. If you include infanticide in statistics for murder, women are at least as murderous as men. It's true that men can do more harm generally because they are far stronger than women, but that doesn't mean that men are uniquely responsible or should be singled out in the way you have singled them out.