You likely will not read this but I wrote it in 1970, when I was 14 because girls were behaving like morons. "All right, you women you, show those men what you can do. Work all night and come home late, you don't cook so he already ate... a few hours ago the TV Dinner that he shopped for himself but YOU'RE the winner 'cause lucky you, you buy HIM the roses and guess what YOU're the one who proposes! Yes, all those fun things like opening doors and cleaning sewers and fighting the wars." In class I said "if you girls want to be treated like men, go find yourselves someone who wants to be treated like a woman!" It was very loud suddenly, I did not look up to see who was standing and clapping. I just hate that men do what they do naturally and we are supposed to dislike it. We *can* and do compliment each other and the right partner still has plenty in common with you. I have NO qualms about my feminity a man likely does not need therapy for being male... unless he is a danger to himself and others which is a totally different topic.