I don't think this is true, exactly, but absolutely the most abusive, controlling, and narcissistic women I've met have identified as "feminists". I think the ideology is toxic and there are many bad actors involved, but women get sucked into it for all sorts of reasons. And some find their way out of the ideology too.

I have very mixed feelings on feminism and its complicated history, but agree it's pathological in its current incarnation in the Western world -- and in particular harms children.