I will never get on board with this line of critcism.
"how fundamentally misogynistic feminist ideology"
Such a ridiculous thing to say.
Of course, feminism hurts women, that's obvious.
But feminism is female supremacist. There isn't an ounce of it that is misogynistic.
It doesn't have to be misogynistic for it to be bad, and this way of taking shots at the movement implies that.
It also doesn't help the self serving attitude of feminists who might change.
"You're wholly self-centered as a woman? Well feminists are the real woman haters, so if you're self-centered you should stop being a feminist or else you'd hate yourself!"
Feminist women would do better to think outside of themselves rather than just leave feminism because self-related reasons.
There's nothing anti german about nazism, there's nothing anti woman about feminism.