Agreed.

The idea that men don't want love, to be blunt, is patently fucking absurd.

Love looks different for men of course. Instead of being care based, it's more encouragement based. Instead of cute affection, it's more of a "brothers in battle" attitude.

I mean the idea that men don't want love honestly floored me. It really is fucking stupid to be completely honest, and it's not just fiamengo saying this, a lot of men say this too for some reason, so its not a her thing.

I mean look at football games and tell me those men don't lover each other. Those men are doing all sorts of encouraging in the huddles.

It's amazing to me that people see men as borderline not human. Obviously men's love has hoo-rah attitude, but its still love.

Seems to be operating from a female frame of reference, because a lot or women seem to think that if you don't stroke each others hair and sob with each other you don't really love each other.

Men do not want to be just of use. They want their presence to be valued and enjoyed fundamentally. They also want to be desired sexually.