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Thank you for your brilliant take on this deeply disturbing trend. As a woman, I'm absolutely appalled that these women are blatantly displaying their sexual perversions. Yes, I'm judging because ALL women pay a MUCH greater cost when these things go on in public. Male predators and porn users feed off this as a way to justify the horrific violence, exploitation and degradation that they already inflict on the women in their lives as well as the women in porn and prostitution. It leads ALL men to question ALL women's morality when in fact, it's an exceptionally tiny minority of women who do this.

It also begs the question: What the HELL happened to these women to make them crave the money/attention that they're now receiving???

I've been observing this as a 65 year old grandmother and lifelong feminist who worked hard to establish credibility in a male dominated industry - technology - and who dreamed of a world where my daughter and granddaughter, and son for that matter would stand side by side with men earning the respect, awards, income, that their fellow male workers, partners, brothers earned and nobody would give anyone a second thought. I dreamed of a world where women's accomplishments would transform the world and create a balance between the masculine and feminine such that women choosing to raise their children at home would be not only respected, but would be compensated for the value that they created in the economy equivalent to any similar work in the workplace. I dreamed of a world where it would be UNTHINKABLE FOR MEN TO BUY WOMEN'S AND CHILDREN'S BODIES much less have women themselves actively promote their own sexual objectification.

I'm absolutely nauseous seeing these things unfolding knowing that the manosphere is going to use these perverted young women to justify the vile disgusting behaviour of these men. They will tell themselves 'See, deep down ALL women deserve to be treated this way by men. Women are ALL perverted.' Even as we see Gisele Pelicot's story about her husband drugging her and having a hundred average men in her community pay to rape her limp. unconscious body with her husband making money from this horrific abuse. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G…

Of course, the more we promote the stories of these young women, who in my view must have been raped, molested, abused themselves in order to do these disgusting acts in public and make money off of them, the more it becomes normalized for other desperate damaged young women.

Soon, the irony is that men will DEMAND that women's sexuality be policed and before you know it we WILL be in a Handmaid's Tale scenario. The OPPOSITE of what feminism was about. Meanwhile, women are reeling from all the sexual violence they're already experiencing at the hands of men in their lives. Men they love. Men they trusted.

Feminism has been hijacked by porn culture and predatory capitalism. What we have today is NOT feminism. Today's bastardized version of feminism has taught both young men AND young women that women's bodies are just meatsacks, sex organs, to be dumped on or in by any man who feels entitled and the average woman does not stand a chance in the face of this misogyny. Young, old, rich, poor, all will become prey for male predators even more so than is already the case.

On what planet does baby rape get normalized? Look at any dark web porn site. Read the book 'Big Porn Inc. - amazon.ca/Big-Porn-Inc-… and you will learn just how depraved the porn industry really is and just how depraved the average porn user is because they BUY this. 80% of men consume porn. This is NOT ok.

I feel sick. Deeply, profoundly sick and I want it to stop. I want men to stop it. I want MEN to call out other men who consume this because women KNOW that men want this content and will PAY for it. That's what's driving these desperate women to behave this way. Male porn buyers. Make it stop. I don't care how. I don't care who. Women like Gail Dines, Catherine McKinnon, Andrea Dworkin have been trying for decades ever since porn magazines came out. Nobody listens to them. What happened to #MeToo??? It got relegated and dismissed because a small percentage of women had questionable claims. So now, NONE of the women are believed. It's a nightmare and it's driving women insane making them unable to function as mothers, wives, daughters, caregivers. It will leave the world a demonic place largely because of male entitlement and sexual obsession.

Jan 20
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