Women are victims of oppression and harassment, yet women are also men's equals, even though they are incapable of standing up for themselves and rebuffing men's advances, and must be treated as helpless victims at the same time as they assert their equality with men. So we have women on submarines because women can do the job as well as a man, and these women then complain about how awful it is being a submariner, because of all the men on the submarine.
bbc.com/news/uk-63435129
Note that the submarine service, in every navy, has always been like this: it's a closed environment where survival depends on every crew member being competent and trustworthy, hence highly prone to "bullying".
This article is another illustration of the contradictions:
thetimes.co.uk/article/…
To summarise, a woman wants to become an orthopaedic surgeon. She is told that it is a very difficult job for a woman with children. Then she becomes an orthopaedic surgeon. Then as the article wears on, she starts complaining that being an orthopaedic surgeon is a very difficult job for a woman with children, exactly the thing that she was told at the beginning of her career. And yet the men who told her this were all sexist, even though she ended up agreeing with them.