Thank you for the poem. I go back 2x year to help out- see her more often than my one sister who is 45 min. away, and the other who always claims to "have no $"- but my dad paid her mortgage for a decade before anyone found out about it....(personally I don't care what my dad did with his $, but these sisters were never grateful, and are only standing in line now waiting for their "fare share" when mom passes. So far she is hanging in there and I think they are upset about that in an evil kind of way....I am so thankful to have a daugther who is compassionate (and smart..and beautiful!) and looks out for the less fortunate. Actually works with the throw away kids (teens) who have been traumatized so many times in their young lives. She wants to fly back and take care of g'ma. But she just got a promotion so she can't....