Thanks- the issue is getting food (box) up a steep driveway, a flight of stairs and into the kitchen to be prepared. Sister says "she has food, she has groceries"- but she doesn't have the energy and where-with-all to prepare it. She can barely remember how to turn on her oven anymore. It's time to look into assisted living but they won't have the conversation for some reason, and I think it's about inheritance.