It did hurt I did have something like a breakdown, mentally. Sobbing and such. Kind of what I experienced when my big sister died, and just last year actually. My brother and sister in law (New Hampshire mean liberals) Oh my gosh, that would be chapter three in my novel, being called a liar, an F-ing B, more accusations. I seriously thought about wanting to just die!! horrible. I do not think my son in law will ever ever apologise.