Hey Meghan, it makes sense to me too. I'm nearly 40 now and I care a lot more about the substance of someone's work than the labels they use. I'm still calling myself a feminist, but friends have pointed out to me that when people hear that, they don't know I mean 'not the fun kind' and that I'm anti porn, anti prostitution and pro-woman above all. You've been really instrumental in making me think outside a narrow scope of who is 'acceptable' as an ally, or even to speak to, and I think I'm a going to be a more pragmatic and effective women's rights fighter for it.