You know no such thing. And women (and children) are raped with solid objects too. And it's called "rape". Or sometimes it's called "sex". Sometimes it's called "religious ritual". Why don't you just talk about your feelings about it and not make such broad statements about a subject you do not understand very well, being male (I assume?). Or why don't you turn this statement into a question? Ever watch porn? Play video games? These are things ordinary people try in private. And females view them, on some level, as a very real threat.