I get it. I really get what you are saying.

But St. Thomas Aquinas taught that the Holy Eucharist is the source and summit of life. The Eucharist is the center of the Church - of a parish.

At Mass, it matters not that we get a good homily, or that the choir sings well, but that when we attend Mass we enter into Calvary. Heaven touches earth on the altar. It is the Holy Mass, and we must re-learn what it is to enter into that deep mystery and to remember that we receive the most handsome parting gift of all: The body, blood, soul and divinity that is Jesus Christ.

So you may have good pastors with good sermons in your non-denom, but consider that you have traded the Holy Eucharist for it.