When we were children (4 of us), my mother was complimented by the staff of our favourite restaurant on how well behaved we were. We all knew that if one of us acted out, not only would the guilty child be removed from the restaurant, but all four of us. The displeasure of my mother was as nothing compared to the censure of three other siblings, sometimes for days afterwards.

Appropriate behaviour in any setting, comes from the development and disciplining of the feeling function and I am eternally grateful for the education I received at my mother's hands.