Jim - don't let these people keep you away from Jesus in the Eucharist. Don't give them that. Jesus deeply desires to be present with us - go back to Him in the Sacrament. Consume him and allow him to heal you. I truly understand your disappointment. I do. I struggle with it too. But let the grace of the Sacraments pour over you like a fount of mercy. I will pray for you and all of those here who share our disillusionment.