That's my point.

When I said "everyone hates everyone else" that was a hyperbolic way of expressing the universal truth of human relationships on this planet.

"Us" vs "The Other" is basic survival hardwired into our brains. That idiot Ibram Kendy with his "Anti-Racist Baby" that became a bit hit with Moron Moms of the Left was attacking what helps us avoid getting eaten by sabertooth tigers before we learn to talk.

"The Other" is anyone who does not share our own personal values which we use to organize society. If I prefer privacy and the honoring of personal space I don't want to live with people who hold block parties on my stoop. I needn't hate or denigrate them; I just want my quiet neighborhood and they can have their noisy one.

We choose our friends from people who may sometimes in some almost intangible way feel right to us.

It's all chemistry, ain't it?