Our five children all played soccer starting in the 90's and we experienced the beginning of that ridiculous notion. There were many stunning successes and some heartbreaking losses but along the way these players realized that participation doesn't get an athlete very far. A combination of ability plus determination and grit, and the realization that the other team often wins, brings lasting personal growth and satisfaction. The parents can help their children be accomplished at something, but it doesn't need to be sports. And personal growth is not fostered by meaningless trophies.