I'm more like a giant sea manetee that was cut out of the movie Finding Nemo.

I don't think it's odd at all to be chunky these days. Sadly, Chunky is the norm, and I am chunky, but not Norm (who sadly recently died).

It sounds though that you own who you are, and don't think it is positive your chunky, but you are great in spite of your added volume. I agree with you on that, and would say we aren't who we look like.