"...to not succumb to the beginnings of hermit-dude I am seeing develop in myself as a response to the cult around me." Glad to hear someone else echo my thoughts, Oxymoron. Aside from my husband and adult kids, everyone else is suspect. I find myself thinking, "Hmmm, so are you one of the people who, in 2021, wanted to deny me medical care (or put me in a camp, whatever) becaused I was unvaxxed??" Trust no one but kindred loved ones, and God.