Thanks, Janice. Amid my fumbling attempt to be light this is the serious side of things. That and the fact that we are all incels at various times in our ordinary lives and cannot avoid the supposed implications of it if it coincides with some unfortunate event. I am reminded of the time that onanism was reckoned to be the cause of mental illness rather than a symptom of it and that this fundamental attribution error might be repeated when looking at incel behaviour. Whilst in incel periods of time, I myself have made many unrewarded or even unwelcome blandishments but when else can you make them and how else do you know if you don't try? I have been rejected by many beautiful women and been depressed after but I "made the grade" sometimes, escaping the incel prison cell and on the run, without being described as mentally ill. Not for that reason, anyway.