A very good point about being "decent". In this country, as well charted by feminists, most of the "advances" were and are enacted by men, men are still the majority in our national political institutions. So what is keyed into is a deep cultural expectation that men will respond to fragile and defenceless females. Rather disproving the idea of "patriarchy". One can see this in the current "terf wars" where two sects of feminism are at war about what constitutes "a woman" because it turns out "women" have lots of "sex based rights". In all of this no one has bothered about "man" nor any "mens rights". Even though the majority of youngsters seeking help are girls wanting to grow up as men. Both of the sects constantly try to goad the wider public into interest by claiming that they are the victims of each other. Indeed the "terfs" claim that their opponents in this doctrinal squabble are "patriarchy" and "men" when very clearly men in general have no interest in this battle of fanatics(well apparently 80% dont according to a recent poll). Paradoxically we have feminists busy demanding more women in our armed forces and police forces while simultaneously demanding "men" protect them in their own doctrinal spats. Apparently on the grounds that women are universally weak of mind and body ! And need lots of "safe spaces". As you say all around their are claims to victimhood.