This has been very evident here in the UK for a couple of decades. Where of course there have had islamist attacks (one killing fans of a teen pop concert in my home city) and for a decade grooming gangs (almost all Pakistani/Afghan ) preyed upon vulnerable young women and boys in plain sight of authorities in over 20 towns and Cities in England (our own Ministry of justice estimated over 10,000 victims from the then known cases). Half the victims were "in care" looked after (supposedly) by Childrens Services or under "Child Protection(supposedly monitored because of their vulnerability. In the latter case of the gangs a couple of Labour MPs, women, were silenced by their own party for raising what was happening in their towns'. You'd think that when these were finally starting to be prosecuted late last decade, causing a rise in rape prosecutions because of thee sheer numbers, feminists would have a field day as the perpetrators were uniformly from a self proclaimed "patriarchal" community. But silence of course, the spike in Rape stats being instead ascribed to a completely fictitious "epidemic" Rape culture in Universities. And of course the growth of more extreme forms of islamist lifestyle including "Sharia" strict clothing rules for women and "honour" violence(vendettas etc) goes unremarked upon by feminists engaged in trying to get "looking" and "unwanted compliments" included as "Rape Culture" amongst students. The total free pass given by the feminists (so vocal and often in print on "toxic masculinity" and the male gaze) on all these issues, including young men patrolling streets in towns near to me with large muslim, communities to ensure girls are modestly dressed, has confirmed the tactical nature of their concerns. So this on Hamas, in evidence here too, is no surprise at all. Cries of "Rape" and indeed "Domestic Violence" have long proven to be the levers to unlock male chivalry to accede to feminists demands, no matter how unrelated to sex or violence the issue is (e.g. more female CEOs would somehow affect rapes??)

However the obvious hypocrisy in evidence for a couple of decades rarely gets a mention. As you say Hamas and the other Islamist groups involved would even proudly declare themselves patriarchal.