Yes fortunately that is my experience. From personal observation I think the only person that behaved a bit like this was the classic middle class (british definition) university educated, college teacher knee deep in "theories" with rather too much time to brood on "injustice" (her lack of money through choosing choosing part time lecturing). Curiously even those who in other contexts declare themselves "feminist" are in fact pretty traditional in lifestyle and expectations of sons, even three lesbian families. I really do think, in the UK at least, the problem is the disproportionate influence of a relatively few feminist women within our institutions.