Janice, when a whole culture supports the story that women are morally superior to men, with rationalizations to explain all of the ways the story conflicts with reality, it is actually fairly difficult for many women to go against such a self-serving narrative. It's even difficult for a lot of men, and there is much less validation in it for them. I am surprised that you are still astounded that many women haven't found the courage to seek unpleasant truth in such an environment.