Agreed. I am living with one. He hasn't even come across the term. That's how well he has insulated himself from any dissenting thought. When/If we emerge from this, and assuming the relationship has not survived, I will be setting up a post-awakening dating substack to interview prospective replacements/upgrades. He is on notice. Done with being a doormat and andropausal punching bag. I have serious skills and attributes. Least of which is a functioning mind. Start honing your CVs.