Remind me not to send my coercively controlled and physically abused son who was kicked in the chest, degraded and spat on to you for help. Most DV is reciprocal and both genders need to learn to respect and honour each other NOT blame everyone else and lie by ommission of their own part in the violence. Mutilating any persons genitals for any reason is an act of violence that no TRUE victim would have the courage to committ imo ..