I agree with you. Better to do things wholehearted than half ass. I am so sorry for your loss. My own sister couldn’t deal with our mother and treated her with contempt. As the older sister I had more empathy and compassion to a fault probably. But I would rather know I did my best and was there for my mother in her end of life. I couldn’t live with myself otherwise. I don’t know how my sister justifies her behavior. She is selfish IMO and holds many grudges. I can’t live that way. God Speed 🙏