I'm a man but can only speak for myself. I do want to be loved, but only by the things that I love unconditionally--My wife, my grandchildren, and my dog. You'll notice I didn't mention my children. I've been married to the same woman for 40 years and we have 11 children together. The feeling of love in the initial stages of fatherhood are just as strong for a man as a woman. But that fades over time for a man and the need for respect becomes dominant. I have 9 boys and it's my duty to prepare them to face an often harsh world. Without respect they will not follow, and you cannot safely lead if you have not well learned to follow. Could say more and would love to discuss with you but I have to go for now. Really enjoyed this piece and I'm going to read more of your stack. Take care.