Hi Hannah. This part really resonated with me too. I've been married to my highschool sweetheart for 40 years and we have 11 children together.

I had a pretty cushy government job, 5 weeks paid vacation, 13 paid holidays and 13 paid sick days per year, upper middle class income, yada yada. I was there for 10 years but it wasn't fulfilling and mainly it interfered with our family life since I was working third shift. My wife was pregnant with our 5th child when I told her I wanted to start my own business. Think of all the certainty I was throwing away and the uncertainty I was asking her to embrace with me. But she did! And I've been in business for 30 years now and several of our sons work in the business. None of this would have been possible had she not been right at my side. "Behind every good man there's a woman" irritates some women because of the word "behind", but in reality there's no behind about it.

Gotta go but will check out your stack, no double entendre intended. 😂