I agree with what you are saying, the issue with "Horizontal Violence" was first researched in the 1980's and the issue instead of decreasing has increased experientially in perhaps the last 15 years.

There is a book "Venus the Dark Side" that I put off buying and even after I bought it, it sat on my shelf for a fair while. My biggest fear was that it was going to "trigger me" but after reading it told me nothing I had not figured put by myself.