For the record, the current level of, lets say, 'demoralization' that is directed toward young men today (that Janice has documented in her various works of the past five years) isn't good, and frankly, for many boys, probably hard to deal with. Putting roadblocks in someone's way (counterintuitively) helps - to a point, but too much results in learned helpless, depression and inaction. We are seeing that manifested in real life today, in some cases.