Men are not to blame for 'giving in' because women have engaged in several generations of feminine coercion (undermining), and men and boys are as vulnerable to the feminine coercion expressed by women as women and girls are to the masculine coercion (violence) expressed by men. Saying men are to blame for what feminism has been 'allowed' to do is like blaming girls and women for 'not standing up for themselves' while getting slapped and punched around by a group of men; like they're in the wrong for getting beat to a pulp.

FYI... Undermining is the use of false information/signals to attack the perceptions of people, communities, institutions, and states. It is also called feminine coercion, feminine 'violence,' and female anti-social behavior.

Here's a list of the many different forms of undermining:

* lying: deliberately deviating from the truth.

* denying: baseless contradicting of an argument; refusal to accept reality; magical or wishful thinking; becomes gaslighting if persistent.

* partial accounting: selective admission of evidence to fictionalize the past or present.

* storytelling (aka false narration): framing, loading, obscuring, suggesting, and sensationalizing.

* overloading: overwhelming the emotional or rational faculties to cognitively disarm against suggestions; a light form of hypnosis.

* moralizing: preachy; didactic; indulging in superficial moral pronouncements.

* psychologizing: uninformed speculation on psychological motives to assign blame.

* special pleading (aka false pleading): defending or supporting by falsely assuming immunity or superiority.

* false promising: false assurance of fairness, loyalty, care, or non-aggression; faith healing.

* baiting into hazard: seduction into non-reciprocal or disproportionate contracts (like cohabitation, pregnancy, and marriage).

* prevaricating: quibbling; shuffling; duplicity; confusing the issue; deliberate ambiguity.

* hysterics: insincere/exaggerated/unregulated expression of neurotic emotions.

* critiquing (aka false criticizing): fault finding; negatively judgemental; becomes nagging if persistent.

* ridiculing: mocking; humiliating; belittling; framing as ridiculous/unimportant.

* shaming: dishonoring; creating contempt; inducing a sense of inadequacy or guilt.

* shrilling: using raucous, jarring, and generally rude speech to be heard more than others.

* gossiping: malicious speech that reveals the personal information (real or fake) of others.

* chanting: transmitting myths for the sake of social construction (an advanced means of fraud).

* rallying: mobilizing by creating a contrived sense of social unity.

* censoring: supervising speech and conduct to suppress what's deemed objectionable.

* ostracizing: exclusion from a community/society due to being disliked or disapproved of.

* reputation destruction: sabotage of social standing through discredit and disrepute.