Oddly, I'm a chunky gal, but I have a gorgeous hunpie who looks like Captain Nemo, bc I'm happy being a woman, I don't nag, I love to laugh with him, and we're planning on running away after retirement in 5 years, and sailing around the world. We hope our combined 8 children will periodically join our adventure. Only bitter feminists are complaining while sitting at home. The rest of us are loving life!