When you become the person, the hard thing becomes the natural thing. The fitness bro doesn't find it difficult to eat healthy, they find it difficult to eat unhealthy. The CEO doesn't force themselves to show up and lead, they force themselves to take a day off. The writer doesn't struggle to sit down and write, they struggle to stop. To the underdeveloped eye, you'd think these people are miserable when they're some of the happiest people in the world, because their focus can't be fucked with. Your old life becomes the uncomfortable one when you fully let go of the old self that's trying to pull you down.