There is, of course, a utopian dream for a world that includes children in all spaces but doesn’t allow kids to ruin wedding ceremonies, and that utopian dream is having a strong network of adults who instill the same morals and manners in children. In other words, a, uhh, village. But as I’ve written about before, people don’t want that. They want the free childcare, but they don’t want those people to have a say in their child-rearing. Children often reserve their naughtiest behavior for their parents, and having a few stern aunties and uncles to keep them in line would help.