I speak with Ibrahim often,A father who has already lost two precious children,Now face such heartbreak as his daughter Ayar fights for her life in the ICU,Her surgery is in 3 days and I just wanted you to read Ibrahim’s own words and hear this fathers plea,A situation that stays with me I walk everyday thinking of Ayar, I decided to come here and write for Ayar even if I am new here,perhaps someone will help,This is my wish and my prayer today
A FATHER’S DESPERATE PLEA💔
Here is Ibrahim’s own words;
I am the father of little Ayar Ibrahim Abu Ouda. Before the war, we lost two children due to premature birth.
My wife suffers from severe blood clotting and has required Heparin injections and medications throughout every pregnancy because of dangerous blood clots.
All four of our children were born through premature cesarean deliveries. Among them is Ayar, who was born during the war under conditions of famine, forced displacement, lack of vitamins, and absence of proper medical treatment throughout pregnancy.
As a result, Ayar was born at 32 weeks of pregnancy — in the seventh month — and had to remain in the neonatal intensive care unit for 20 days.
After leaving intensive care, she began suffering from episodes of choking and turning blue, and this continued for a month. Doctors initially suspected a heart problem and requested an echocardiogram, which revealed holes in her heart. She was then referred to a neurologist, who urgently requested a cranial ultrasound after suspecting a blood spot, causing doctors to fear it might be a cancerous brain mass.
She underwent an EEG, which showed severe neurological seizures and what doctors described as severe epilepsy. Her seizures worsened significantly, and she became unable to breathe without oxygen support. For the third time, she was admitted to intensive care — this was the most difficult period for Ayar. As seen in the video, she suffered between 10 and 15 seizures per day.
Doctors then urgently ordered a CT scan, which revealed a brain hemorrhage. Following this diagnosis, doctors decided that she needed emergency surgery to remove the blood clot. Unfortunately, this led to nerve weakness, permanent loss of consciousness, and severe breathing difficulties. She now depends on oxygen support continuously.
My daughter can no longer resist the illness. She does not respond to feeding/treatments. The disease has become stronger than her and controls her condition in a terrifying way.
We, Ayar’s parents, are completely helpless in the face of our daughter’s suffering. According to the doctors, she urgently needs another surgery. The total cost, including medical imaging, laboratory tests before surgery, and post-operative care, is $6,000. We managed to collect only $1,000 a few days ago.
We beg everyone, We already lost our two children before,Don’t let us experience such pain again. Please look upon my child with compassion and humanity.
My heart is breaking,her mom is collapsing before my eyes, and I stand helpless before God and you,Please,do not abandon us. Do not forget Ayar and her devastated mother,Every night I watch her in pain,and my heart breaks a thousand times.
I am a broken father,fighting helplessness, fear and I pray every minute,just so my child can stay alive. Don't leave her alone,Please, save my child before I lose her right before my eyes.Thank you💔🇵🇸