My wife and I were out to dinner a couple weeks before Christmas. Mostly a wine bar . Food ranged from good to excellent depending on how fresh the fish was. There's always a free glass of the evening special wine available. We were seated. The waiter came over and we ordered the free wine. He left and I went up to go to the restroom. On the way back , I ran into a couple we knew. Good friends of my daughter and her husband. We've known them 20 years. Their kids grew up with my grandkids. I had…