You don't need to serve: you're not a servant.

You don't need to be calm. You don't need to be collected. You don't need to be decent. You don't need to be nice. You don't need to be pretty.

Just be fucking honest and clear. Take responsibility. Love with furious intensity. Be passionate and real. Be kind and compassionate. Be beautiful. Be dangerous. Be wild!

Be all of that for yourself first.

Stop pretending to be a complacent little slave.

You're better than that. You were born free. You are an expression of divinity (nature). You're here to show who you are: not to follow a cult leader.

You are the leader.

Lead. Your. Self.

Be the change you want to see. Find the free people to play with. Inspire those who are not. Be the example.

But for fucks sake, stop giving yourself away to others. Nobody is better or worse than you are. Man or woman. We're equal.

I'll die on this hill.

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I'm done with dictators pretending to be benevolent, while rallying troops so they don't need to face the shit they're avoiding internally.

Fuck off with your supremacy bullshit. I don't care if you're feminist or misogynist. It's the same fucking playbook. And you're both wrong 🙃 Souls don't have gender: you're acting soulless by hating the other.

Heal your mommy/daddy/child wounds. Then tell me again why you should lord over others. Why do you think you're clinging to others and crying for help or permission?

You're projecting your insecurity onto the world.

Desperate for an absolute truth in a universe of relativity. Find your inner balance to reconnect to your divinity.

Opposition doesn't exist, if you want to fight: fight yourself. See how long you enjoy that, when you don't get to offload your emotions onto others.

Know the difference between raging and fighting, resistance and aggression, defense and assault.

Those are the dualities. Assault is only warranted if you're presently in mortal danger: you're not. If you were, you wouldn't be on Substack.

• Stop blaming others for your problems.

• Stop shaming others for your insecurities.

• Stop guilting others into submission.

• Stop physically harming people to get your way.

It's all assault.

Set yourself free instead: read from the top.