Masculinity is under attack, and it isn’t entirely fair. No one wants to deal with the violence of hypermasculinity and it’s pretty arguably toxic, but not, once again, all hypermasculine men. And especially not ‘normal’ masculine guys, who are told there’s something intrinsically wrong with them. That’s a lie; there’s a healthy medium, and I offer one potential model, even though he’s someone I otherwise pay zero attention to.