Oxford Languages defines gaslighting as “manipulat[ing] (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.“ Not only has my commenter used the word incorrectly—I did nothing but show her a publicly accessible web page—but she gives me undue credit. I’ve no desire to undermine anyone’s faith in their sanity, but if I did, I can’t imagine what “psychological methods” I’d employ. Not only am I unskilled in such arts, but I believe the average woman is not fragile enough to be so manipulated—even if this one behaved as though she were. “Gaslighting” is the language of victimhood.